ITS TOXIC IF THE ENERGY YOU GIVE IS NOT RETURNED BACK.

 Toxic relationships among university students is not only the toxicity among lovers in university,many people talk about this forgetting that there is also toxic relationship among friends we get in campus.

Nobody wants to be alone after all and bad friends can be seen as better than no friends.That fear of isolation can make it easy to let.

Sometimes one out of ten university students feels they do not have true friends that they feel connected to,in addition to this  some almost feels lonely on a daily basis ,feelings of isolation are extremely common and understandable for those who many have never been so far away from home.Many have never had the experience of living with flatmates.

Flatmates are the people you see everyday for atleast a day and are usually your first considerations,flatmates are also the people you joke with engage them in your conversation and smile with them each and every time you are together.

In friendship relationship its important to do things like give others benefit of doubt and to show a genuine interest in getting to know them if you would like that interest and kindness returned to you.

There is however a difference between reasonable compromises and a feeling that no matter what or how much you give to a relationship its not reciprocated,it is very easy for feelings of loneliness to push us into arms of friends who are not even fun to be around but uses our loneliness weakness to exploit us and make the relationship between us very toxic.mmmh buh the problem is nobody wants to be alone after all and bad toxic friends can be seen as better than no friends,that fear of isolation can make it easy to let people off the hook who may be taking advantage of you or treating you badly. 

instance your friend is always fixated on  their own problems,while yours go largely unseen and they are nowhere to be found when you need them.The toxic friends may also lack respect for your boundaries,they push at your  boundaries in small increments until you realize that they have stepped so far over the line,that neither of you can see it anymore.

Toxic friends may also be constantly demanding your attention regardless of whether you feel able to give it or they may constantly feel entitled to your belongings whenever you try to mantain those boundaries,you are ignored and this can leave you feeling exhausted emotionally and physically.